flirting with dating

same old same old!! (somethings never change, eh) well I suspect I won't "live to regret it", but I shall carry on living despite it. . .
. . .I signed up again with the internet dating site - absolutely NO DECENT MEN at all; doesn't really surprise me much, what would a decent man be doing on a dating site anyhow! but, I'm on one, so there might just be a suitable fella out there

I'm not holding my breath - will be like trying to find the proverbial needle in the haystack (and, to be honest, I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship, let alone actually want one - but perhaps that's just because I've forgotten the good stuff?)

4 comments:

Rimshot said...

Will you marry me?

english inukshuk said...

oh sweetie

(-:

I don't have a very good track record on that front. . .

:-/

I'd rather be friends forever - that way you'll never get fed up with me!

(-;

XX

english inukshuk said...

(you are kidding right?)

Mel said...

I'll try not to note that he didn't respond to that! ;-)

In the meantime--dunno that you've forgotten 'the good stuff'. There just came a time in my life where the 'relationship' jazz just wasn't all that darned important. Taking care of me, was--my relationships with others in general was...my relationships with my kiddos, my relationship with my G-d....maybe it's called perspective shifts? Dunno....but I got a whole lot of help with letting go of 'one must have a partner' thinking/actions--and I didn't particularly think that I had that going on...seems I had something going on!

But it shifted and I learned a whole lot of 'stuff' about 'stuff' and about human being and about ME. Ughhhhhh....not always comfy lessons, but required, apparently!

I'm thinkin' you've already experienced some of that same 'shift' in perceptions and thinking.
Wild guess!

Personally--I can vouch for there being 'decent fellas' out there.
Still!
One less, of course....now that I have a 'himself' in my life--but out there nonetheless!

Wow.....I was wordier than wordy!